My husband and I were sitting in our sun room yesterday having a pre-dinner drink when a very frightened little bird frantically flew into the room through the open door. It hid underneath one of the unoccupied chairs, while we pondered what to do next. But before we’d closed the door to the rest of the house, the bird suddenly flew into the next room and hid itself in a hanging pot plant.
Little Bird Wallpapers
A little belatedly we closed off the rest of the house, and explored the best way to help. The plant was hanging in front of a window but it was locked and opening it would clearly be more terrifying than reassuring. Should we go away and leave the door open outside? But the bird looked quite comfortable there in the maiden hair fern. What if it didn’t leave before night fall and was frantically flying around the room like the caged animal it was?
I decided to try to grab it. In the process, it became clear it was a baby bird that didn’t yet understand that it couldn’t fly to freedom through glass and kept bashing itself against the window. I kept talking to it in quiet tones, and finally caught it. As my fingers wrapped around it, I felt it go limp. I kept talking to it, reassuring it that everything was going to be okay, and carried it outside. When I released it on the lawn, it flew speedily away across the property fence.
We returned to our drinks with a feeling of quiet pleasure that the bird had flown in when we were there and that we’d been able to help rather than discovering a battered bird on the floor the next morning.
Like that little bird, I would like to say thank you for the comments following my post of despair yesterday. What you reminded me is that none of us can reconstruct the world to eliminate all suffering and injustice. Yes, systems matter. And there are good systems and bad systems. But no systems can work if the individuals living in them don’t take care of each other in the small and sometimes big ways that fly through the door unannounced.
Your comments really did help me remember that.